There are plenty of good reasons to want to get back with someone. There are also plenty of bad ones. If you want her back for a good reason, then by all means, you should try and do your best to win her back. However, if you want her back for a bad reason, then maybe you should just let her go on with her life and you should just go on with yours.
What are some of the good reasons for wanting an ex girlfriend back in your life?
1) Because you genuinely care and love for her.
To genuinely love and care for your ex girlfriend, you have to feel that way without the promise of getting anything back in return. If you only love and care for her if she returns the feeling, that is not at all the same as feeling that way even if you don’t get anything back in return from her. Of course, you can still want her to feel that way and it would be healthy if she did in order to have a relationship. It’s just that you need to really feel that way even if you don’t get what you want out of the deal.
2) You broke up with her over something petty that can easily be fixed.
It’s hard to be a couple, it certainly is. No one hands you a manual for how to do it, you are just expected to know and to figure things out as you go along. Well, of course that means that some of the time, you are going to mess it up and not get it right. A lot of couples will break up over something petty that can easily be fixed if they just knew how or just took the time to do so. If this was the reason for why you and your ex broke up with one another, then you should try and win her back if you can.
3) You don’t need her in your life, but you do want her in your life.
There is a world of difference between needing to have someone in your life and wanting to have them in your life. When you feel like you need her, that means that you don’t feel like you can carry on a meaningful life without her. When you feel like you want her, it means that you know that you can have a good life, you just would like her to come along for the ride with you. That is a much healthier way to look at things and when you feel that way, getting back your ex girlfriend can be downright easy to do.
It’s easy to figure out how to get your girlfriend back when you want her back, but don’t need her back in your life.